đ Introduction: Why Adventure Can Heal the Single Parent Heart
Single parenthood can feel like a mountain you never signed up to climb. Whether youâre divorced, widowed, co-parenting, or simply parenting solo while your partner opts out of certain adventures, the weight of responsibility can be heavy. It can also feel scary and uncomfortable.
But hereâs the truth: you donât have to put your goals of adventure on hold. In fact, exploring the outdoors with your child can be one of the most healing, empowering experiences youâll ever have. Youâre also building that blueprint for your childâs development and sense of adventure, life and nature.
This summer, my almost-two-year-old and I set out to explore Yellowstone National Park and Grand Teton National Park, just the two of us. What I found wasnât just breathtaking landscapes, but a deeper sense of connection, resilience, joy and a newly discovered confidence in myself.
I know life as a parent is busy and sometimes you just want the quick version. If youâre short on time, scroll to the end of this post where Iâve pulled together a simple summary of all my best Yellowstone and Grand Teton travel tips for single parents with toddlers.
đ Why Yellowstone & Grand Teton Are Perfect for Single Parents
These parks are ideal for solo-parent adventures because:
- Accessibility: Many scenic spots are reachable without strenuous hikes. Some iconic spots are stroller accessible.
- Variety: From geysers to wildlife to serene lakes, thereâs something for every attention span (including toddlers). Alaric loved seeing the bison and the Moose we saw.
- Facilities: Visitor centers (passport stamps!), restrooms, and picnic areas are plentiful.
- Community: Youâll meet other families and travelers who are often eager to lend a hand or share a smile. I was pleasantly surprised at how many new families with very young kids were there.
Youâll quickly realize youâre not alone, so many parents are out there traveling with infants, toddlers and small children. Alaric was making new friends and learning from older kids playing in the lakes or hiking through the forest.
đ The Role of a Support System â And Doing It Alone
One of the biggest myths about solo parenting adventures is that you have to do it completely alone.
Support doesnât have to be physical presence, it can be emotional encouragement from friends, family, or online communities like this one. We often think that our experiences are unique to us and no one else can understand but that has a limit.
I have to constantly tell myself that I am not special in that way. There are others that have walked this path and there are others who are about to walk the path. Iâm here to show you the path that Iâm paving for myself and Alaric.
- Ask for help where you can: Maybe a friend drives you to the airport, or a relative helps pack snacks.
- Reach out to other parents who have gone to the same place.
- Do a quick internet search for tricks and tips of the destination. Read blog articles like this one outlining what worked for them and their toddler(s). I also have another blog on our custom itinerary if you plan to go to these 2 national parks.
But know this: You can do it alone if you need to. Itâs not easy, it takes more time and patience, but itâs possible.
âď¸ Traveling With a Toddler: Plane Ride Survival Guide
Before You Fly:
- Book flights during nap times if possible.
- Choose aisle seats for easier bathroom trips, or window seats for a little extra space for naps.
- Pack a small, lightweight stroller that can gate-check (we skipped this).
- I love baby/toddler wearing Alaric in my Toddler Kinder Pack.
- Travel car seat- if you plan to drive, or take an uber, your toddler needs a car seat. Theyâre lighter than your everyday one.
- If your child is old enough in their own seat, you can buy this inflatable pillow to create a bed for your child.
In Your Carry-On Bag:
- Snacks: Variety is key because if youâre like Alaric, he has a new snack preference daily. Think fruit pouches, crackers, and a âspecial treatâ for emergencies. I always have 1 new snack whenever we travel.
- Entertainment: Sticker books, water-reveal coloring pads, yoto, and a couple of small toys. I also have a new small toy whenever we travel.
- Comfort items: Blanket, favorite stuffed animal, pacifier if they use one.
- Chargers: phone, iPad, laptop, and charging bricks.
At home I limit screens, but when traveling? Unlimited screen time.
In Your Carry-On Luggage:
- thinner clothing, both yours and your childâs
- Toiletries- something to note. One carry one is only allotted 1 quart size ziploc bag of liquids. I put Alaricâs toiletriesâ bag with his liquids in the carry-on luggage and I put mine in my carry-on backpack. This strategy had no issues getting through security.
- Medication & essentials
Here’s my blog on the packing list for this particular trip. Check it out if you want to save some brain power.
Pro Tip:
- Wrap a few small toys in tissue paper â unwrapping them becomes part of the entertainment
- Pack a bag with unnecessary things like swim diapers, thicker clothing like hoodies, snacks and liquids over 3oz such as bug spray, sun block and shelf stable milk like Kendamil cartons. Airlines often check car seats for free, so strap this bag to the seat.
đ Road Tripping Through the Parks With a Toddler
Car Entertainment:
- Soft toys (no hard edges in case theyâre dropped or thrown, emphasis on thrown).
- Toddler-friendly playlists or audiobooks (we adore our Yoto).
- Window clings for interactive play.
- Books- Alaric loves books. We love the first 100 words electronic book.
Break Strategy:
- Stop every 1â2 hours to stretch and explore. Yellowstone is a HUGE national park and it requires a lot of driving.
- I have a portable potty chair that is always kept in the car. I also carry the frida foldable toilet seat for public bathrooms. During our breaks I cue Alaric to go to the bathroom to prevent accidents. He did have more accidents on vacation than he does at home and thatâs understandable. Donât feel discouraged. He went right back into routine when we got home.
- Use picnic areas for snack breaks â it turns travel time into mini-adventures.
Alaricâs car tolerance time is 2 hours. Anything more than that and he is cranky. I built lots of stops and small adventures. It is 2.75 hours from West Yellowstone (where our hotel is) to Lake Jenny in Grand Teton National Park. Check out our detailed itinerary through Yellowstone and Grand Teton National Park.
𼞠Hiking With an Almost-Two-Year-Old
See my list for all your gear essentials for both you and your kiddo!
Trail Tips:
- Choose short, scenic trails with interesting features (waterfalls, boardwalks, wildlife).
- Let your child walk small sections to burn energy.
- Keep expectations flexible and keep your plans flexible. I had to pivot many times depending on how Alaric was doing that day.
Before my marriage and childbirth, I loved hiking and camping. Something about being in nature, walking, exploring, the stillness, birds chirping, I found calming to my nervous system. Going through a divorce or facing a lot of conflict and burn out, your nervous system may be in overdrive. Slowing things down can help to regulate your nervous system.
đż Healing Through Nature: The Emotional Side
Adventure as a single parent was completely new territory for me. I was anxious and apprehensive about it, so if you have those feelings, you are not alone. Some things I noticed is that nature slows you down: I notice the steam rising from a geyser, the way Alaric gets so excited at a bison sighting and the sun setting over the Grand Prismatic.
You prove to yourself that you are capable, resourceful, and strong, even when itâs hard and even when you feel like you donât have a choice. Nature is healing in so many ways. The quietness and stillness is healing. Getting away from life is healing as well. Parenting doesnât really stop so why not do it surrounded by beauty?.
Did I hurt when I saw other âwholeâ families traveling? Yes. Did it make me sad that Alaric may not have that with his father and I? Yes. Did it hinder the joy we got from being there and making beautiful memories together? No. The first trip wonât be easy but I would hope it gets easier each time.
đ Practical Tips for Single Parent Adventurers
- Pack light, but smart: Multipurpose items save space. For example Alaricâs swim wear also acts as his summer wear. Swim shorts dry quicker than traditional shorts so if your child has accidents, these items are easily washed and dried within the day for reuse.
- Plan, but stay flexible: Toddlers are unpredictable and are on their own schedule which usually involves being late, build in buffer time. Also keep in mind if youâre coming from a different time-zone, you and your child will probably need time to adjust.
- Safety first: Know your route, carry a first-aid kit, and keep your phone charged. One of the biggest safety point to know is limit driving at night. Wildlife is indeed wild. Bison can come out of nowhere and at night, they are very hard to spot.
- Connect with other travelers: A quick chat at a trailhead can lead to shared tips or even a helping hand. I did not choose to take long or remote hikes because of traveling alone. The places I decided to go to are populated so you will not be the only one there.
đ¸ Capturing the Memories
Donât forget to document your journey. I photograph everything so that Alaric has these memories to look back on. As a single mother, I did not post on social media that I am traveling from a safety standpoint. I let close family and friends know but the internet did not know. I did not want to advertise to anyone that my home is vacant.
- Take short videos of them exploring.
- Snap candid moments, not just posed shots. Finn no longer poses for photos so we do mainly candid ones.
- Write down a few sentences each night about the dayâs highlights.
- All of these photos were captured on my Canon Rebel T6 and an Iphone 8 with no special capability.
đ Final Thoughts: Youâve Got This
Whether youâre a single mom, single dad, or simply the parent taking the lead on this trip, know this: you are giving you and your child a gift. Not just the gift of seeing Yellowstoneâs geysers or Grand Tetonâs peaks, but the gift of adventure, sense of wonder and resilience.
Adventure wonât erase the challenges of single parenthood but it can help you find the joy in creating long lasting memories with your child that no one else can take away from you. Alaric and I now have a special memory, planting a seed to visit national parks collecting stamps for our passports as a mother-son tradition.
âł Quick Takeaways: Single Parent Travel to Yellowstone & Grand Teton
- Youâve got this: Adventure as a single parent is possible, healing, and empowering.
- Why Yellowstone & Grand Teton work: stroller-friendly trails, wildlife, family facilities, and a welcoming community.
- Support systems help: accept encouragement and small assists, but know you can do it alone. I believe in you.
- Plane travel tips: book during naps, bring variety snacks, bring new toys, and donât stress about screen time.
- Road trip survival: stop every 1â2 hours, pack a portable potty chair, turn snack breaks into mini-adventures.
- Hiking with toddlers: short scenic trails, flexible expectations, child carrier, check out my blog on must-have gear.
- Emotional side: nature heals, confidence grows, and the memories outweigh the challenges.
- Practical essentials: pack smart multipurpose items, plan but allow flexibility, avoid driving at night for safety reasons.
- Capture it all: photos, videos, candid moments, and journaling create lasting memories.
- Final reminder: youâre giving your child more than a trip, youâre giving them resilience, joy, and tradition for both you and your child.
Please check out my other blogs related to our amazing trip to Yellowstone and Grand Teton National Park.
-Full packing list.
-Our custom itinerary.


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